Relocation Buyers: Have a Baby, Make New Friends!

What better way to feel at home when you buy a new home than to have a baby? That's what I've discovered anyway. Since we moved to Pollock Pines last summer, I've been longing to find a community and new friends where we live. And just lately, it's been a lot easier. Reason? I'm pregnant and beginning to show. And now I have friends everywhere. People have come out of nowhere to help and be nice.

Yes, having a baby changes everything. But just in case procreating isn't what you want to do to ensure you have more friends, check out these other options:

Talk to More People - Visit your local grocery store and talk to anyone who will listen. If you're in business for your self, this behavior is called networking. But you can always use it if you're new. People are extremely willing to show you around or help you with locating a store or services - if you only ask. Let them know you're new. Then watch them offer to help.

Throw a Meet and Greet Party for Neighbors - This one is fun. You can invite your neighbors to your housewarming party if you choose. Really, with food and drinks, who is going to stay away? And it's a great way to get to know your neighbors.

Check the Local Boards at the Grocery Store - Maybe it's because I'm a woman but I really do think grocery stores are huge socializing place. Some will have flyers and brochures on local events at the entrance. If they do, check them out - you might find ways to get involved in your new community and make some friends that way.

Check for Local Clubs - Volunteer or Otherwise Check online for clubs in your new neighborhood. You'll almost always find something. Some might be volunteer like the Rotary Club or Lions Club, a great place for establishing community friends. Others might be more specialized. Since my husband likes to brew beer, our local club - the Hangtown Association of Zymurgy Enthusiasts - HAZE for short - gives us an excellent opportunity to make more friends with common interests.

Whatever the strategy, it's important to talk to more people when you move. Do not stay home or just hide in your house, no matter how much you love it!